I never thought I'd see this day coming, but to be honest - I'm so glad it did.

Several drafts lying around in my blogger dashboard and I never found the courage to complete them..


The past few months have been an emotional rollercoaster for myself. I'd find myself struggling to get back up during my lowest point, not wanting to get out of bed and just completely stopped loving myself.

Absolutely, eternally grateful to my closest group of friends who have been nothing but supportive throughout this entire journey. They held my hands every single day, they've seen me through during the darkest times, they were always there. My pillars of strength.


And realisation dawned on me finally - I did not lose anything at all. In fact, I've gained so much during this period - genuine friendships, valuable life lessons and knowing what I truly deserve.

I didn't deserve someone who couldn't reciprocate the amount of love I gave away so freely.
I didn't deserve someone who wants me to be someone whom I'm not.


To you girls out there:
Love is a conscious decision. It always has been.


And if someone can't accept and love you the way you are, leave.