Role Model, Not.
Monday, December 20, 2021The recent WLH saga has gotten me super intrigued, thank god for girlfriends who can read traditional Chinese characters well hahaha.
Yet another high-profile "role model" marriage has fallen into the dark hole of cheating, manipulation & lies. Truth to be told, this just further makes me even more afraid of marriage. I mean, who wouldn't be? In this modern time we're living in, infidelity is so common because technology makes it so easy to do so. It's practically effortless.
I can feel what Jing Lei is feeling - for I've somewhat been through (at least close to) what she has gone through. WLH reminds me of someone who I've had a past relationship with.
This person tries (and I believe, still trying) to live up to his clean, "Mr. Nice' and goody-two-shoes image that everyone has of him, but only his victims and I truly know how narcisstic and disgusting he is.
I've kept tabs and pieces of evidence of letters, messages and photos over the years when I was with this dude. Every single thing. Like how WLH had someone to turn to in every city, this dude works the same too - he had someone to "have fun with" everywhere he go. (Btw, he's like 1/10 of WLH's looks hahaha)
And at the very end when I found out and confronted him about it, he chose to pin it all on me - that I lied about his infidelity and fabricated false stories about him to our mutual friends. He didn't even show remorse about what he'd done, not just to me but to the many ladies he'd been "dating." But of course, all of us had concrete evidence.
I'm not gonna do an expose over something that's happened years ago... my word to all the men who think they can get away with everything?
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